SAHM vs FTWM

This is not going to be a debate on the above. I am fully aware of the pros and cons of both. However, I do not see a choice for myself as of now.

Hubby would very much like me to be a SAHM but at the same time assist him in his business. I too think I will probably go haywire if I do not at least work part time. My kids are growing up too fast and I feel that I need to personally guide Ryan in his studies to a certain extent.

For the time being, it all boils down to financial stability. I cannot give up my job now as the perks are great and the pay helps with family expenses. However, I think I will need to come to that decision in 1-2 years time. I hope my current venture on the net will earn me some pocket money. I would like some financial independance too even if I decide to be a SAHM eventually.